Friday of the Second
Week of Lent
When (Joseph’s) brothers saw that their father loved him
best of all his sons, they hated him so much that they would not even greet
him. (Genesis
37:4)
Then (the Lord) called down a famine on the land,
destroyed the grain that sustained them. He had sent a man ahead of them,
Joseph, sold as a slave. They shackled his feet with chains; collared his neck
in iron, till his prediction came to pass, and the word of the Lord proved him
true. The king sent and released him; the ruler of peoples set him free. He made
him lord over his household (and) ruler over all his possessions. (Psalm
105:16-21)
(Concluding
the parable of the tenants, Jesus told the chief priests and elders of the
people:) “Therefore, I say to you, the Kingdom of God will be taken away from
you and given to a people that will produce its fruit.”
(Matthew 21:43)
Piety
Piety
Lord, free
me from envy and from the desire to justify myself to those who envy me the
gifts You have lavished on me.
Study
Other than
that “long ornamented tunic,” we don’t see any significant paternal favoritism
toward Joseph. It’s not as if Jacob was physically, emotionally, or verbally
abusive to his other sons; indeed, the New
American Bible notes on this chapter include this observation: “Throughout
the story, Jacob is unaware of the impact of his favoritism on his other sons.”
But Joseph was the child of Jacob’s old age; Jacob was wiser, perhaps softer,
perhaps had more time to get to know Joseph as a person than he had the others
as they were growing up.
Sometimes,
it feels like God plays favorites too, doesn’t it? One woman gets pregnant and
has ease in childbearing; another finds it impossible to conceive. One man
can’t not make money and be a
professional success; another can’t keep a job and struggles to survive. It’s
easy to become jealous and envious, as did Joseph’s brothers and the people in
the parable of the tenants, and to exact “revenge” not on the One seen as
showing the favoritism but on the one for whom life seems easy and free.
We diminish
ourselves when we do this. For truly, finding favor with God is simply a matter
of loving Him and loving our neighbors as ourselves. We can do it with God’s
help, praising Him for all He has given us, or we can choose to focus on the
gifts given others instead, knowing little or nothing of the price they paid or
the secret sorrows and challenges they hold in their hearts. One path is the road
to redemption… the other is filled with demons happy to commiserate with you.
The choice is yours.
Action
Just for
today, stop yourself and pray the Lord’s Prayer whenever you find yourself
thinking or saying someone else’s life is easier than yours.
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