Tuesday, June 16, 2020

“Be Merciful, O Lord” By Melanie Rigney


“Be Merciful, O Lord”  By Melanie Rigney





Be merciful, O Lord, for we have sinned. (Psalm 51:3a)

“For if you love those who love you, what recompense will you have? Do not the tax collectors do the same? And if you greet your brothers only, what is unusual about that? Do not the pagans do the same?” (Matthew 5:46-47)

Piety
Jesus, You can do anything. Help me to grow closer in perfect love.

Study
Don’t expect a pat on the back or a big “atta-girl” or “atta-boy” from the Lord because you sacrifice for a beloved member of your family or a friend.

And for that matter, don’t expect that pat on the back if you sacrifice for and love someone who has knowingly or unknowingly frustrated and betrayed and undercut you at every turn.

In today’s Gospel reading, Jesus tells us to love everyone and be perfect, as is our heavenly Father.  Wouldn’t that be so much easier if every once in a while, God stopped and told us He recognized just how much it took for us to greet the woman who stole our husband or the colleague who beat us out for a job or the neighbor who with seemingly little effort has the perfect family and the perfect yard?

The thing is, we may think it’s about us and the other person and learning to control some not-very-pretty emotions, and needing an immediate Spirit-filled round of applause. (It may also come as a surprise to us the others have to control some not-very-pretty emotions about our behaviors.) It never is. It’s about God and His desire that like Him, we all love unconditionally. That means getting rid of the but—you know it. “I love you/him/her, but…” and its companion, “I know I’m supposed to love you/him/her, but…” End every thought and sentence before the but. The other person likely won’t notice. You will, and as time goes on, you’ll mean it… and won’t go looking for God’s delight, because you will know it’s there.

Action
Stop pondering what it is that Jesus finds so very lovable about that person who works your last nerve. Just love him or her.


illustration:   https://pixabay.com/photos/thumb-hand-arm-guide-guiding-grip-422558/ , Niek Verlaan from Pixabay

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